Also looking at that Party of One - I don't hate 1 on 1 meetings or 1 on 2/3 - it's groups. I hate groups - be they cliques or societies or online groups of people. I tend to be the one standing off on the side. That Groucho Marx quote describes me perfectly - from bears to mashup people and DJs (DJs have a strange psychology too, the collection aspect and anal knowledge mixed with a contrary desire to stand in front of people and be the focus - most DJs I know are introverts) although I'd like to be accepted, I don't want to be part of the status quo or the organisation, the focus or the hierarchy. I'm pathologically wary of that.